Boylara,
TH was never a profession and even as a hobby is expensive so meanwhile stay on the sideline and for once, be a MACHO man to your wife, MACHO,(Matsu-nurin -Yesman or Yes Mam)
, just kidding !Do not take it too hard, I am retired and my Commander is always shouting telling me to do things, do this, do that and I always shout back at her, with a --------------- -YES MAM ! When the wife tells you to go wash the clothes, retort back, OK, we will Separate, Separate the whites from the colored clothes,
Why not go for the offer of Gener sometime back, if it is still open, if you can find him.
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Cheer up! When you are ready to go back to the hobby of TH, it is still gonna be there waiting for you, they cannot recover it all, even with their amazing talents of finding the Exact locations. When the Going gets Tough, the Tough keeps Going, something to that effect.